
Gatherings bring the community together around the things we love to do, from travel and the outdoors to hobbies and passions, sports and fitness, wellbeing, technology, and arts and music. Every gathering is in partnership with Gaybors Guide listings that are LGBTQ+ friendly or owned.

At the Gaybors Guide, we believe in the power of a digital detox and taking the time to build authentic friendships. Gatherings are our invitation to step away from the screen and into the real world, where meaningful moments unfold in a safe, welcoming setting with those who share your passion. No feeds, no swiping, no scrolling. Just show up.

Camping weekends, group hikes, beach days and kayaking trips.

Board game nights, cooking classes, book clubs and dinners.

Run clubs, pickup games, team sports and martial arts sessions.

Group yoga, meditation circles and group spinning classes.

Networking nights, startup talks, coding sessions and AI workshops.

Gallery visits, craft workshops, open mics and live music nights.
Gatherings are in partnership with businesses, activities and events that are verified as LGBTQ+ friendly or owned by the Gaybors Guide. Gathering attendees can be themselves while building friendships and discovering a business they can support not just during the gathering but all year long.
Our partners range from cafés and galleries to studios and cooking schools, each one the perfect spot for the community to come together and build meaningful connections.
Find your city and meet your local host(s), who are members of the community.
Browse upcoming gatherings that range in interests, from the outdoors to arts and technology.
Save your spot and mark the calendar.
Show up and build friendships in a safe, verified space, with a host who is mindful of everyone attending, including those who prefer alcohol-free options.
Hosts are the heart of every gathering. Our hosts are community advocates who know the importance of creating safe and welcoming spaces for conversation, kindness and friendship, and who lead those efforts in the community they call home, with the support of Gaybors Guide.
Applications are open while the program is in the works.




Gaybors Guide retreats are the ultimate gathering in beautiful Chiang Mai, Thailand. Nestled among lush mountains and ancient temples, our retreats bring the community together for the same reasons gatherings exist which is to build authentic friendship, healing and belonging, in one of Southeast Asia's most welcoming LGBTQ+ destinations.
Each retreat is designed for and by the LGBTQ+ community and include Mind, Body & Soul, Drag, Artists and Yoga & Wellness which are in partnership with LGBTQ+ friendly and owned businesses in Chiang Mai who are part of the Gaybors Guide.